Change is good. Change is hardly ever expected. Change sometimes grabs you with both fists and shakes you. Now you can take one of two roads when this happens. One, you resist; you fight back; you look change in the face and say “NO!” Although in my experience this method only prolongs the inevitable changes that are going to take place regardless of your opposition. Or two, you can decide to make the most of change and just roll with the punches. Obviously, that can sometimes be easier said than done.
Whatever you do, the reality is a lot of times “shit just happens.”
That used to be my favorite bumper sticker back in the 90s.
The other thing I would say is that change is not always good or bad. It may just be new or different. Or as the old saying goes, “the only thing constant in life is change.”
Or maybe kind of related… “hay que darle tiempo al tiempo.”
Los vientos están cambiando, my friends.