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Not Fabulous. Not Fancy. Not Like That.

There are a million and one reasons why we’ll never be all that fabulous. And I mean that in the sense that we’re not all that “fancy,” as Iggy Azalea or many other chart-topping celebs and their fans might explain that single word. Why? Because the truth is somos medios sencillos, in every sense of the phrase. I mean, sure we can clean up rather decently at a moment’s notice. Sure, we can work the room when it’s necessary. Sure, we know how to act according to where we are and who we are with. Sure, we can hold our own. And yeah, all that stuff is great, especially considering the fact that sometimes when you walk into a room being the only people of your kind, many folks will take anything you do or say as a representation of your entire culture or ethnicity. That’s not to say it’s right, but it does happen, and we try to always be cognizant of that.

Not because we have to. But because we choose to.

Not Fabulous. Not Fancy. Not Like That.

Not that fancy.

I think that has something to do with the way we were raised. Both my parents and Juan’s always stressed the importance of putting your best foot forward in every single situation. Growing up, we couldn’t so much as step outside of the house without looking presentable. If we were going somewhere important – say like to visit a family member, go to church, and especially if we were going to a party – we had to look even better than any other day. Hair had to be curled, pinned, or combed up very neatly; dresses and blouses had to be pressed; shoes had to look shiny and almost brand new. For quinceañeras and weddings, we spared no expense. If we were part of the chamberlanes and damas custom-made dresses and tuxedos were involved. It didn’t matter how humbly we were living, our families always found a way to make sure we had the proper attire.

Even now, when we have something important to do or a big event to attend, hay vamos, todos listos para comprar de lo mejor. Or at the very least to buy the best of what we can afford. We’ll mix and match our mejores tiliches, meticulously dig through piles of clothing to find something “presentable,” all while simultaneously ordering Edgar to change into “something else.” It’s really kind of funny now that I think about it. Out the door we go, looking all nice and neat, leaving behind a pile of clothes on top of the bed “that didn’t look right.”

Maybe there’s something to be said about vanity there too, but I’ll leave that for another momento. 

The thing is once we get to where we’re going, we’re not afraid to admit all the craziness we just went through to get there. At times blurting out these details leads to bewilderment or laughter, usually followed by other’s own confessions about how much they go through just to get ready too. We like that. We really appreciate knowing that we’re not the only ones going through so much hassle just to walk out the door. It’s nice to know that despite all the Instagram filters and photo-edited reality of our social society, people today do still put on their blue jeans one leg at a time. We’re not all walking around with a “team” to work on our look. I think that makes being not fabulous all the more wonderful.

Beyonce may wake up like that. We certainly don’t.

Something To Smile About!

Disclosure: I have partnered with Cricket Wireless as a 2014 Blog Ambassador. All opinions are my own.

Smiling. I’m all for it. All of the time. For no good reason. Just because. I love to smile and to make other people smile. Life is too complicated already to not try and find the humor in every situation. I think that’s something I’ve learned from my family. No matter the odds, we always manage to laugh at our current or past predicaments.

Maybe that’s because of the old saying, mejor reir que llorar. 

And, in fact, I think that’s true. You feel much better after laughing at yourself than you do when you cry over spilled milk. With that idea in mind, I tried to capture a few of the smiles around me that always seem to brighten my day.

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My nephew Allan. Even with that cast he’s sporting on his little arm, he’s all smiles.

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Jonathan. The youngest of my nephews. Those big old eyes and smile always make me happy.

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My niece Sophia. She’s not always smiling, but when she does… well, you see that beautiful face :-)

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And then I always end up with this big, silly grin across my face.

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And, of course, Edgar is always ready for a little silliness like his mamá.

This post was inspired by Cricket’s Something To Smile About campaign. They’re hoping their nationwide coverage and convenient month to month plans will make a lot of folks smile. Meanwhile, they’ve already inspired me to appreciate the little moments of happiness around me every single day.

Follow the #VidaConCricket hashtag and @MiCricket on Twitter.

Festival People en Español 2014

Strayer hired me to attend Festival People en Español 2014 and write this blog post. 

This weekend was a lot of fun! It had been a LONG time since we last hit the open road and headed for San Antonio. As I’d mentioned in an earlier post, Strayer University invited me to attend the Festival People en Español in San Antonio, Texas this past August 30 – 31. We did, and the experience was well worth the trip.

Not only did we get to hang out with a lot of fellow bloggers, but we also got to meet a lot of new faces as well. We met the family that’s a YouTube sensation, the Reality Changers. We watched the pilot episode of ABC’s sure-to-be-a-hit Cristela, and then got to hear the creator of the show herself – Texas native, Cristela Alonzo – tell us about her humble beginnings. We attended the Chicas Poderosas concert where Becky G and Zendaya rocked the house. We listened to Don Francisco, Genesis Rodriguez, and so many others share their personal experiences on the main stage, and most importantly, we heard over and over again why this is the moment for Latinos in the U.S. to start building a better tomorrow.

Strayer University was all over that idea. They had a personal success coach on hand during the entire event, meeting with attendees interested in talking about their own personal success plans. It really was a great event. We had never attended Festival People before and doing it this way was very nice.

When it was all over on Sunday, we drove to Corpus Christi and stayed the night there before driving home on Labor Day. Just in case you’re wondering what the last picture at the Texas State Aquarium has to do with any of this. We did also create the below video of our time in San Antonio. I hope you enjoy the pictures and the video.

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Our Metiche gear for the weekend. I made my cap. Juan bought his.

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Me and my baby.

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Juan and George of Sofrito for your Soul, a.k.a. Urban Jibaro.

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La familia.

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This is how you take selfies :-)

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Reality Changers meet Los Metiches!

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Reality Changers meet the Que Means What familia.

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The Strayer University crew.

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Excitement about higher education at the Strayer University booth.

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Houston’s own Las Fenix rocking the house conjunto-style!

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Actress Genesis Rodriguez.

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The legendary Don Francisco. He was definitely a show stopper.

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Yvonne of Spoiled Latina, Monique Frausto of Curves and Chaos, and Melanie Mendez Gonzales of Que Means What.

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Yvonne and Juan after they were surprised with their personalized coke cans.

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We had to stop by and visit Disney!

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Fellow Houston Latina blogger Yvonne and me.

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Latina bloggers (L to R) Yvonne with Spoiled Latina, Monique Frausto with Curves and Chaos, Melanie Mendez Gonzales of Que Means What, Eileen of Mommy Teaches, and yours truly.

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Singer Zendaya performing at the Chicas Poderosas concert. I really enjoyed her set!

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Juan and Edgar at the Texas State Aquarium.

About Strayer University 

Founded in 1892, Strayer University has over 80 campus locations in 17 states. The mission of the 120 year old higher education institution is to help working adults earn a high-quality college degree that fits into, and advances their lives. Each student – whether they are taking classes at a Strayer University campus or online – is assigned their own personal success coach, who assists them with financial advice, goal setting, career advice, time management, and other skills. In addition to helping to increase each student’s opportunity for academic success, coaches help prepare them for the real-world challenges that are inherent in building a successful career while managing other life priorities. Degree programs available at Strayer University include Executive MBA, Executive Grad Certificate, Traditional MBA, Masters, Bachelors, Associate, as well as Certificates and Diplomas. To learn more about the university click here.

Cristela. I am a fan!

So I’ll admit, before watching the pilot episode for Cristela this weekend I was kind of hesitant about the new show. We’ve all been through the highs and lows of hearing about an exciting new Latino show that will be the “big hit” of the season, only to then, let’s just say, be less than impressed. For whatever reason, it seems all of the major networks have had the hardest time developing a hit show that actually resonates with the elusive US Hispanic viewing audience. It’s not that we’re apathetic. I think it’s more the reality that there is a very fine line between being too Latino and not Latino enough.

I know, that’s an oxymoron in it of itself. Still, too many shows have played the Hispanic card with very thick accents, crude grunts and “¡eys!” and “¡eses!,” instead of just talking to us like normal human beings who also happen to be Latinos. I mean don’t get me wrong, those characterizations are a part of who we are, and we all know people in our lives who have fit that identity at one point or another. The thing is not all of us talk or act like George Lopez all of the time. We just don’t.

So how do you bridge that hard-to-define-gap? In the case of Cristela, you do it by being yourself. That’s what I realized this weekend at the Festival People event I attended in San Antonio. ABC flew in comedienne and actress Cristela Alonzo to pilot her show and talk to us about how she got started. As it turns out, Cristela on screen was very much like the Cristela off screen we met. A daughter of Mexican parents who grew up in San Juan, Texas and who never imagined, she told us, that she would one day be working on her major network debut. After hearing about her humble beginnings it’s easy to understand why.

Despite the odds, however, she is currently touring in support of her self-titled series Cristela. 

It’s a seriously funny show. And a family show at that. Alonzo told us that was on purpose. She wanted to create a show the entire family could sit down and watch together, and also one her own family could be proud of. The characters are based on her actual family. And from what I saw in the pilot episode I believe she has done both. The characters were lovable and tough, funny and real, and Cristela herself has a knack for hitting the right humorous chord every time. The script, which she cowrites as well, is genuine and relatable. Nothing stereotypical at all. When normally a script could have and would have predictably gone right, the writers of Cristela make a conscious decision to go left. And it’s very likely going to pay off. 

The show kicks off on ABC this fall.

Here’s a little bit from Cristela on the show:

I don’t know what the future holds but like I said earlier, everything happens for a reason.  Whether this show fails or succeeds, I’m just glad I got to be on this ride…if even for a second.  All I know is that I am living something that very few people get to live…and I am so grateful for that.  So grateful.”

HAHMP Border Crisis Event

The numbers are staggering. The headlines, sensational. The debate, uber-political. And for many of us who are either immigrants or children of immigrants, this “border crisis” hits extremely close to home. Parties on both sides  have raised their voices and made their opinions clear. Still, that doesn’t change the fact that according to some predictions nearly 60,000 unaccompanied minors will enter the United States this year alone.

That’s 52,000 more children than the average 8,000 unaccompanied minors that entered the country annually prior to 2012, according to the Center for Gender & Refugee Studies. These kids are coming from Latin American countries, for the most part, in search of a better future for themselves, or to try and reunite with their parents or other family members in the U.S. Los niños de nadie, some media outlets have labeled them.

Recently in Houston, the Houston Association of Hispanic Media Professionals held a panel to discuss the “border crisis” created by the debate around the influx of unaccompanied minors entering the country. Latino journalists from KPRC Local 2, La Voz de Houston, News 92 FM, MyFoxHouston, Univision, Telemundo. and various other media outlets shared their experiences in covering this story.

Below are a few images from the event. Anjelica and I were part of the audience during this panel.

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HAHMP members with veteran News 92 FM journalist Mike Barajas.

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Husband and wife power couple Jessica and Nelson Vanegas.

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Macky Osorio, United Airlines; Aurora Losada, Assistant Managing Editor of Spanish Publications for the Houston Chronicle; and Anjelica.

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The Houston blogger crew, Anjelica, me and our good friend, Sandra Fernandez of SandraSays.com.

Paisa Discount?

You know those people who just can’t seem to help themselves? They’re always looking for a deal, no matter where they go. Chances are you’ll often find them at the clearance section of Target, JCPenney, or any other major department store. They can’t make a purchase without first wondering if they could find it cheaper somewhere else… and most of the time visiting several stores before coming right back to the one store they started at, only after having confirmed they are really getting the best deal. Or in the case of Los Metiches, making their kid ice skate around and around the ice rink at The Galleria until they are satisfied they have gotten the full worth out of their $15 entrance fee.

Pos sí. That kind of happened this weekend. Juan was even adamant that he should have gotten the “paisa discount” when he went to go buy a bottle of water in Spanish. I know. Ta bien loco… but don’t take my word for it, watch the video, and tell us, are you tacañ0 or tacaña too?

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